
We live
in a much more chaotic world than our ancestors. Thanks to technology, we are expected to
manage more tasks in an hour than our grandmother’s handled in a day’s
work. Many woman experience stress on
such a regular basis they are convinced their bodies have become accustomed to
the feeling. They may, in fact, be
accustomed to the feeling, but let me assure you their bodies are suffering the
consequences.
Imagine
an animal out in the wild about to be preyed upon. The animal’s natural instincts ignite a
stress response. All bodily functions not
immediately needed including the immune system, digestive system, and
metabolism (just to name a few) are put on hold. All energy and biological resources are
diverted to survival functions. The
stress response is intended to be used in threatening circumstances for
survival purposes.
The
stress response is not unique to wild animals.
In fact this biological phenomenon is experienced by humans. So if our bodies are intended to experience
stress, why is there all the hype about how dangerous it is to our health? Like many things in life, there is such thing
as too much of a good thing.
Consider how your stress
compares to the stress of a wild animal.
The rabbit’s stress is temporary to threatening circumstances. Outside of being preyed upon, the wild animal
probably spends the majority of its life peacefully roaming around in its
natural habitat. The body of this wild animal is given the opportunity to
recover and return to normal functioning.
How much down time do you give your body to rest and return to normal
functioning? If your response is minimal
time, think about the effects this has on every inch of your body! The following are just a few negative effects
of stress:
- Unhealthy weight
- High Blood Pressure
- Heart disease
- Headaches/Migraines
- Digestive Issues
- Skin disorders and rashes
- Muscle tension
Everyone
experiences stress. The key is learning
how to cope with it. I’m going to give
you three simple steps to better manage your stress TODAY!
1.
Make
stress management a priority!
No
matter what roles and responsibilities you have in life, you will be more
successful at them if you
have your health. Stress negatively
impacts your health, therefore, stress HAS to be a priority. Our
society as a whole does not necessarily value stress management. Consequently, our society as a whole is not as healthy as we could
be. So are you going to be a leader or a follower?
People in your life may not always support
your desire to make healthy decisions. Only
YOU can decide to make stress
management a priority in your life. Only
YOU can say NO to things that
are unhealthy for you and YES to things that are healthy for you. Only YOU can put stress management at the top of your daily
“to do” list. It’s not always easy, but
it’s ALWAYS a choice.
2.
Identify
your stressors and face them.
You may
have experienced a trauma that continues to create stress in your life. You may be stressed
from having too much on your plate. You
may have relationships in life that cause stress. Whatever the culprit is, make a decision to
face it. It is tempting to avoid dealing
with these issues and hope they will go
away on their own. Let’s face it, the
longer you avoid your stressors
the longer they boil inside of you.
The
good news is, once you decide to face your stressors, there is relief around
the corner. It may take some courage and work to get there, but you will only find
relief by putting one foot in front
of the other.
3.
Take a
break.
Your mind and body deserve a break. Stress will always be a part of our
life. You cannot cope with stress on an
empty tank. You must give yourself
permission to take breaks on a regular basis.
This doesn’t have to be an expensive weekend vacation. It can be as simple as taking a walk in the
evening or making time to read. There
should be NO excuses for skipping emotional breaks.
I hope this article provides you
with a new refreshing perspective of the value of stress management. You will only experience the benefits of
stress management if you make the choice
to devote time and energy to your wellbeing.
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